Thursday, September 11, 2008

Never Explain Yourself

今天从第三者口中听到一些令人不太舒服的话,是有点介意,可是何必放在心里呢?不懂你的人,就由得他们怎么说吧!

反正别人不懂你工作有多忙;反正别人不懂你连关心自己的时间都没有;反正别人跟你的想法不一样;反正别人对朋友的定义不一样;反正我不是他,他不是我;反正...就是不一样嘛!

You do not need to explain yourself.
The one who likes you does not need it;
The one who dislikes you will not believe it.

从Renny身上学的(desktop上的名句),我们都没办法取悦每一个人,就让懂你的人相信你的人去体谅你吧!就像没有哪个人少了谁是活不成的一样;对家人尽了做家人的责任,对朋友尽了做朋友的责任就是了,没有人有责任要去取悦谁的吧?

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

After some while, when you have heard so much of it, you will get used to it.
What they think, why we care?

Coz we are just who we are. They can't simply judge us.

Rest more dear~

Unknown said...

yeah... rest more ah sa... i really sad when hearing that you don't have the time to care about yourself in the blog... don't know you really mean it or?... btw... thanks for your advice and so 'ngam' renny got that phase... hehe... quite helping.... i might work at NLP o... but not yet confirm with SL... maybe wait and see... after a rest 1st perhaps... hehe... take care and i really miss you all toooooooo...
from ah ken

Samantha said...

I'll try to balance my life, not physically but mentally... In fact i'm quite enjoy my life now... Feel thankful that i have good colleagues and good boss, good friends, good family...

U come to work here la..I missed the days we work OT and u sent us supper...hm....feel hungry d now...LOL...

Waiting for your good news ya~

Take care ^=^